I really don’t get this, “forgive and forget,” thing. I forgive and forget, but then I’ve forgotten who I forgave, and walk around angry at the motherfucker, I forgot that I have forgiven. If I forgive you and forget, that means I’m still pissed off at the thing you did to me that needed forgiven.
To forgive and forget can only cause problems. So, I say fuck “forgive and forget.” Either forgive and remember or never forgive at all.